Throughout centuries, story tellers, and people from different backgrounds and cultures always refer to their fascination in one day meeting their soul mates. Is Soul Mate a myth? Do they really exist? Or is Soul Mate a figment of our own imagination that can help keep our hopes for a perfect relationship alive. Or is it an escape for not handling or not looking at ourselves in such a way that we keep delaying our responsibilities and things can be fixed when we meet that perfect relationship with those Soul Mates. Everything is possible! It is up to you and me to decide the bottom line of this puzzle.

If we talk in a metaphysics tone, words used we say we are all coming from the same source, one soul, branched out into different ventures or experiences to achieve. But in reality we are all Soul Mates. Maybe that’s true but I believe there is more to it than that!!

How do we define Soul Mates?

Soul Mate is another Soul that shares the same exact similar way of understanding as the other Soul. In this lifetime they decided to share their growth and understanding together. It does NOT mean Soul Mates have to be in a relationship to make it work. What do I mean by that?

From the motion that a Soul integrates into life through a particular family, geography, religion, or situation for certain reasons. I do believe we choose our family, we choose our religion, and we choose where we want to be born for certain that the Soul itself will identify and at the same time you will be aware of it one day if you are well attuned with yourself. We will not dispute the reasons we go through that because we will have unlimited reasons here.

Let’s start with our choice of a family we were born with. If each one of us looks deeper into our families, there must be at least one person and many times there are more in our immediate family or cousin that we feel differently with. That person can be your father, your sister, your niece, or your cousin. It really does not matter who that person is, but that person is your Soul Mate where you always enjoy being in their company, listening to them and mainly value everything they say. Those experiences with Soul Mates were already started at a young age. Then we grow up, and many of us have had one or two particular friends around us at school or in a new neighborhood. I bet you everyone can relate to someone. And that goes on until we are adults and the dating game starts.

We need to understand one thing when it comes to relationships, as long as we do not rush ourselves into a relationship for a wrong reason and what I mean by that is:  look at the person, what they drive, who his family is, how rich they are, or how cute they are, what their education is, or just to be in a certain crowd. All of that will never bring you to Soul Mate. This never works because you are looking into the wrong substance.

With Soul Mates, there is no Karma to deal with or work at. All you have is the enjoyment of being in each others company. The only thing you know about your Soul Mate is whenever you are in need, they are always there for you whatever deep your troubles are. Look around you through the years, can you already identify with someone that fit that equation. I bet you do.

There are three levels of Soul Mates that I believe exist. I will look into that in my next articles.

Until then!